They Look the Same—But What Happened to Him Broke Millions of Hearts

 


A Ukrainian Son's Devastating Transformation

Oleksandr Strafun, a reserve officer and steelworker from Mariupol, answered his country’s call when Russia launched its full-scale invasion in February 2022. Despite not having fought since the conflict in eastern Ukraine in 2014, he felt compelled to defend his homeland. On February 25, 2022, he enlisted in the Territorial Defense forces, and the very next day, he told his wife, Olena, “I’ll return after victory.” The Economic TimesEuromaidan Press

Their final conversation occurred on March 1, when he requested only soap and socks—small items in a world about to explode around them. Shortly thereafter, contact vanished. The Economic TimesEuromaidan Press


The Shadow of Olenivka and A Mysterious Blast

Amid Mariupol’s brutal siege, Olena remained trapped but refused to give up hope. Through support networks, she discovered Omar was being held at Olenivka, a prison notorious for its inhumane conditions. The Economic TimesEuromaidan Press

On July 29, 2022, an explosion at this facility killed dozens of Ukrainian POWs—just one day after Oleksandr managed brief contact via a smuggled phone. Yet, by some miracle, he survived. Euromaidan Press


Return—and a Heartbreaking Reveal

Finally, on June 14, 2025, Oleksandr was released in a prisoner exchange. When he emerged, a side-by-side photo with his wife circulated widely—both had consented to share the images, knowing their story could speak volumes. The Economic TimesEuromaidan Presscensor.net

The “before” image shows a man full of life—dark-haired, healthy, smiling, dressed in traditional attire. In contrast, the “after” photo reveals a gaunt, pale figure with shock-white hair; his skeletal frame and ashen skin testify to unimaginable suffering. The Economic TimesUNILADEuromaidan Press


The Human Cost of Captivity

Beyond shock, Oleksandr’s transformation became a symbol of the harsh realities facing Ukrainian POWs. Human rights organizations, including the UN and Amnesty International, report widespread abuse of prisoners: torture, mock executions, starvation, medical neglect. UNILADEuromaidan Press

Online reaction was immediate and heartfelt. One Reddit user wrote:

“He looks like my grandfather before he passed of heart disease.”
Another commented on his hair:
“It’s wild how white his hair went. I hope he can recover.” The Economic Times


Resilience Amid Pain

Strafun’s story resonates not just in Ukraine, but globally. He became the face of resilience—an emblem of survival and testament to the unbearable cost some pay for freedom.


Summary: Oleksandr Strafun’s Story

Key Moment

Details

Enlisted

Feb 25, 2022 – Territorial Defense, Mariupol

Last Contact

Mar 1, 2022 – Requested soap and socks

Captivity Location

Olenivka prison, Donetsk region

Explosion at Olenivka

Jul 29, 2022 – Oleksandr survived despite deadly blast

Release

Jun 14, 2025 – Freed in prisoner exchange

Before vs After

Healthy → emaciated, pale, white hair, shell-shocked appearance

Shared By

His wife and NGO volunteer Olena Zolotariova of Power of People

Broader Significance

Symbol of POW suffering, endurance, and human cost of war

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