If You’re Still Doing This in California, You’re Being Watched

California is chill — but make no mistake, people notice things. And if you're doing this one thing, you're being clocked by locals more than you realize. Whether you're new to the state or a long-time resident, there's an unspoken rule you're probably breaking.

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🚫 What You’re Probably Still Doing

Many newcomers (and even locals) fall into the trap of oversharing loud opinions about California's problems — in public spaces. Whether it's complaining loudly about traffic, housing, or local policies, this habit signals two things to native Californians:

• You’re not adapting.
  
  

• You’re disrespecting their home.
  
  

And in coffee shops, beach walks, and even barbershops — people notice.

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🕵️ Why Locals Notice

• Californians value optimism, even if it's performative.
  
  

• Public rants = red flag energy
  
  

• People assume you don’t really like it here — so why are you here?
  
  

This one habit often puts a social wall between you and real connection.

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✅ What To Do Instead

• Keep criticisms private or constructive.
  
  

• Ask locals about what they love here.
  
  

• Focus on local solutions, not general complaints.
  
  

• Avoid judging California with an “outsider’s lens.”
  
  

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📌 Final Word

California may seem laid-back, but it has strong social codes. Break them — and yes, you're being watched. Follow them, and you blend in faster than you'd think.